5 Habits In Child Care Patterns That Parents Must Avoid

YOGYAKARTA Children need parents who accompany them and believe in their children's abilities. Parenting patterns are a recurring, continuous habit. In this regard, psychologist Jeffrey Bernstein, Ph.D. recommends that parents avoid parenting patterns that appear to "help" but actually should be avoided. What parenting patterns should be avoided by the parents? This is a list and explanation.

When a child cries sobs because of the fall and collapses, the child does not need an ortu who fixes his toys. Bernstein said, children need someone who believes in and is nearby so that he believes he can fix his own problems. Reported by Psychology Today, Bernstein's advice, try to talk less, listen more, and offer peace before taking over to solve your child's problems.

As explained above, children often need someone they trust and trust their abilities. Instead of providing strategies, providing more important empathy. Like when a child has no friends playing at home, he needs the connection and support and attention of those closest to him or his parents.

When a child is fixated on his schoolwork, it doesn't mean he doesn't need support. He needs someone who is a good reminder. Parents are important to serve as a reminder to their children, that the task is more than just value.

How to provide support to children, it is important to pay attention to parents. The reason is, instead of lecture children about a certain value, it is better to provide support in a calm way. For example with the phrase 'It seems you are overwhelmed. Mother is here when you need it'.

Everyone has problems, even children have their own problems. Like friendship, completing school assignments, or with friends playing. When children, for example, get bad grades at school, it is important for parents to believe that their children can overcome it. Parents can provide understanding of efforts enough to improve value. Not by scolding or protesting to school teachers to change their value for the better with certain arguments.

After knowing what habits in parenting patterns need to be avoided, parents also need to understand how to properly care for children. Such as by providing validation of feelings that are not just improvements, empowering children, and building children's confidence.

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